Know what you want Before you set out in search of your dream T-Girl there are a few things that you need to decide. One of the most important is to have a realistic view of what you are looking for. Easier said than done, in some cases, because even men looking for a girl in a regular night club might not have a clue what kind of girl they are interested in. Sometimes it’s just a case of simple chemistry! There will be just the right girl waiting for you if you know what you want when you start out.
Maybe what you want is a friend who just happens to be a T-Girl. Someone you can get to know and have a good time with. This is an excellent place to start. If you are genuine you will gain a good friend. There is also the possibility that your new friend has other T-Girl friends that she will introduce you to and who knows where that could lead. Don’t set out with that goal in mind though. T-Girls, just like any other woman, are quite intuitive. We will probably see right through any attempts to use or manipulate us, and that isn’t a good way to get started. Just be honest and genuine.
Are you interested in dating a T-Girl? This is where you start to pull out the stops and bring on the suave, debonair side of you. All the while, you’ll be a gentleman, of course. Look for someone that you are mentally and physically attracted to. Of course, it helps if she responds in the same way and is equally attracted to you. Dating can sometimes lead to the next level. Keep reading – this guide is for you!
If you are in the market for a serious relationship it might be advisable to have already passed through the first two phases. Start by getting familiar with the T-Girl community. Visit a nightclub or social group on a regular basis and get to know some of the T-Girls as buddies, without the assumption that they are all going to want to sleep with you. Talk with them and be natural and unassuming. The more friendly and ‘safe’ you appear to them, the better chance you have of getting some regular friends you can have a drink with. There is a wealth of information to be gained from this type of friends.
Having made some T-Girl friends, you might get lucky and end up on some casual dates with a few lovely T-Girls. It’s similar to the dating you probably did in high school. You needed a little experience to find out what you really wanted – what really excited you! Once you have that experience you can then look for someone you want to be with for serious dating or even on a long term basis. Ok, I know I left something out. Maybe you really want to hook up with a sexy T-Girl for a wild night. If it is a sexual encounter you are looking for there are plenty of T-Girls who are looking for the same thing. They get urges just like you do and sometimes just want to get an itch scratched. Again, approaching them requires a little knowledge so you inadvertently say or do something which will insult them!
For every kind of interaction you want there are T-Girls who are looking for the same thing. Knowing what it is you want makes it just that much easier to get what you both want.